Category
- Albums
- Apparel
- Audio Bibles
- Audio Bibles (Spanish)
- Audio Books
- Adventure Fiction
- Allegorical Fiction
- Angelology
- Bible Language Tools
- Bible Story Books
- Bible Studies
- Biblical Fiction
- Biblical Studies
- Biographies
- Books With Music
- Business
- Catholic
- Character Development
- Charismatic Interests
- Children
- Children's Fiction
- Christian Living
- Christmas
- Christology (Theology of Jesus Christ the Son)
- Church History
- Church Life
- Classic Books
- Contemporary Fiction
- Devotional
- Discipleship
- Drama
- Easter
- Eschatology (End Times)
- Evangelism
- Faith
- Family Concerns
- Fiction
- Futuristic Fiction
- General Fiction
- Healing
- Health and Diet
- Historical Fiction
- Inspirational
- Juvenile Fiction
- Leadership
- Lectionary
- Men
- Parenting
- Pastoral Helps
- Personal Finance
- Pneumatology (Theology of the Holy Spirit)
- Poetry
- Politics
- Prayer
- Romance Fiction
- Sermons
- Single Living
- Social Issues
- Spiritual Warfare
- Story Books
- Suspense Fiction
- Teen
- Theology (Exegetical Historical Practical etc.)
- Women
- Worship
- Audio Books ( Spanish)
- Bible Videos
- Bibles
- (Unknown)
- Amplified
- Christian Standand Bible
- Bride's Bibles
- Children's Bibles
- Compact Bibles
- Devotional Bibles
- Family Bibles
- Gift and Award Bibles
- Interlinear Bibles
- Large and Giant Print Bibles
- Men's Bibles
- New Testament Only Bibles
- One Year Bibles
- Personal Size Bibles
- Reference Bibles
- Scripture Portions
- Specialty and Misc. Bibles
- Study Bibles
- Text Only Bibles
- Thinline and Slimline Bibles
- Wide Margin Bibles
- Women's Bibles
- Youth/Teen Bibles
- Common English Bible
- Contemporary English Version
- English Standard Version
- Children's Bibles
- Compact Bibles
- Devotional Bibles
- Gift and Award Bibles
- Interlinear Bibles
- Large and Giant Print Bibles
- Men's Bibles
- New Testament Only Bibles
- Pastor and Preaching Bibles
- Personal Size Bibles
- Pew Bibles
- Reference Bibles
- Scripture Portions
- Specialty and Misc. Bibles
- Study Bibles
- Text Only Bibles
- Thinline and Slimline Bibles
- Wide Margin Bibles
- Women's Bibles
- Youth/Teen Bibles
- Foreign
- Geneva Bible
- Good News
- Holman Christian Standard
- International Childrens Version
- Jerusalem Bible
- King James Version
- Bride's Bibles
- Children's Bibles
- Compact Bibles
- Devotional Bibles
- Family Bibles
- Gift and Award Bibles
- Large and Giant Print Bibles
- Men's Bibles
- New Testament Only Bibles
- Pastor and Preaching Bibles
- Personal Size Bibles
- Pew Bibles
- Reference Bibles
- Scripture Portions
- Specialty and Misc. Bibles
- Study Bibles
- Text Only Bibles
- Thinline and Slimline Bibles
- Topical Bibles
- Wide Margin Bibles
- Women's Bibles
- Youth/Teen Bibles
- Living Bible
- Modern English Version
- New American Bible
- New American Bible (Revised Ed.)
- New American Standard Bible
- New Century Version
- New English
- New International Readers Version
- New International Version
- Bride's Bibles
- Children's Bibles
- Compact Bibles
- Devotional Bibles
- Family Bibles
- Gift and Award Bibles
- Large and Giant Print Bibles
- Men's Bibles
- New Testament Only Bibles
- One Year Bibles
- Pastor and Preaching Bibles
- Personal Size Bibles
- Pew Bibles
- Reference Bibles
- Scripture Portions
- Specialty and Misc. Bibles
- Study Bibles
- Text Only Bibles
- Thinline and Slimline Bibles
- Topical Bibles
- Wide Margin Bibles
- Women's Bibles
- Youth/Teen Bibles
- New King James Version
- Bride's Bibles
- Children's Bibles
- Compact Bibles
- Devotional Bibles
- Family Bibles
- Gift and Award Bibles
- Large and Giant Print Bibles
- New Testament Only Bibles
- One Year Bibles
- Pastor and Preaching Bibles
- Personal Size Bibles
- Pew Bibles
- Reference Bibles
- Scripture Portions
- Specialty and Misc. Bibles
- Study Bibles
- Text Only Bibles
- Thinline and Slimline Bibles
- Wide Margin Bibles
- Women's Bibles
- Youth/Teen Bibles
- New Life Version
- New Living
- Catholic Bibles
- Children's Bibles
- Compact Bibles
- Devotional Bibles
- Gift and Award Bibles
- Large and Giant Print Bibles
- Men's Bibles
- New Testament Only Bibles
- One Year Bibles
- Personal Size Bibles
- Pew Bibles
- Reference Bibles
- Scripture Portions
- Specialty and Misc. Bibles
- Study Bibles
- Text Only Bibles
- Thinline and Slimline Bibles
- Wide Margin Bibles
- Women's Bibles
- Youth/Teen Bibles
- New Revised Standard Version
- Nueva Version Internacional
- Other
- Parallel Bibles
- Passion
- Phillips
- Revised English Bible
- Revised Standard Version
- The Message
- The Voice
- Today's New International Version
- Bibles (Multiple Languages)
- Bibles (Other Language)
- Bibles (Spanish)
- (Unknown)
- Dios Habla Hoy
- Foreign
- Jerusalem Bible
- LaBiblia America
- Nueva Biblia Latinoamericana de Hoy
- Nueva Traduccion Viviente
- Nueva Version Internacional
- Other
- Parallel Bibles
- Passion
- Reina Valera (1909)
- Reina Valera (1960)
- Children's Bibles
- Compact Bibles
- Devotional Bibles
- Gift and Award Bibles
- Large and Giant Print Bibles
- New Testament Only Bibles
- Pastor and Preaching Bibles
- Pew Bibles
- Reference Bibles
- Scripture Portions
- Specialty and Misc. Bibles
- Study Bibles
- Text Only Bibles
- Thinline and Slimline Bibles
- Wide Margin Bibles
- Women's Bibles
- Youth/Teen Bibles
- Reina Valera Gen
- Book and Bible Accessories
- Books
- Activity Books
- Adult Ministries
- Advent
- Adventure Fiction
- African-American Interest
- Aging
- Albums Scrapbooks and Address Books
- Allegorical Fiction
- Angelology
- Anthropology
- Apologetics
- Archaeology
- Art
- Atlases Charts and Maps
- Baby Books
- Baptism
- Bible Curriculum
- Bible Dictionaries
- Bible Language Tools
- Bible Personage
- Bible Story Books
- Bible Studies
- Biblical Fiction
- Biblical History
- Biblical Studies
- Bilingual Books
- Biographies
- Books With Audio
- Books With Music
- Books With Software
- Business
- Calendars and Datebooks
- Careers
- Caregivers
- Catholic
- Character Development
- Charismatic Interests
- Children
- Children's Fiction
- Children's Ministries
- Christian Education
- Christian Living
- Christmas
- Christology (Theology of Jesus Christ the Son)
- Church Administration
- Church Finance
- Church History
- Church Life
- Church Management
- Classic Books
- Clip Art
- College Books
- Coloring Books
- Commentaries
- Communion
- Comparative Religions
- Concordances
- Contemporary Fiction
- Cookbooks
- Counseling
- Crafts
- Cults and The Occult
- Dating and Sex
- Death and Dying
- Decision Making
- Denominational Concerns
- Devotional
- Dictionaries
- Discipleship
- Divorce
- Documentaries
- Drama
- Easter
- Ecclesiology
- Ecumenism
- Educational
- Encouragement and Lay Counseling
- Encyclopedias
- Eschatology (End Times)
- Essays
- Ethics
- Evangelism
- Faith
- Family Concerns
- Family Entertainment
- Fantasy
- Father's Day
- Fathering
- Fiction
- Forgiveness
- Friendship
- Futuristic Fiction
- General Fiction
- Gift Books
- Graduation
- Grief and Consolation
- Guest Book
- Handbooks
- Harmony of the Gospels
- Healing
- Health and Diet
- Hermeneutics
- Historical Fiction
- Hobbies and Leisure
- Home Schooling
- Algebra I
- Anatomy and Physiology
- Astronomy
- Biology
- Chemistry
- Composition
- Computer Science
- Critical Thinking
- Early Education
- Earth Science
- Economics
- English Curriculum
- Environmental Science
- French Curriculum
- Geography
- Geology
- Geometry
- German Curriculum
- Government and Political Science
- Grammar
- Greek Curriculum
- Handwriting
- Hebrew Curriculum
- History
- Home Economics
- Language Arts
- Latin Curriculum
- Life Management
- Life Science
- Literature Curriculum
- Math
- Multiple Home School Subjects
- Other Home School Subjects
- Phonics
- Physical Education
- Physics
- Pre-Algebra Algebra I and Algebra II
- Readers
- Reading Curriculum
- Reference
- Science and Technology
- Sex Education
- Sign Language
- Social Studies
- Spanish Curriculum
- Special Education
- Speech
- Spelling
- Statistics
- Vocabulary
- Humor
- Inspirational
- Jewish and Messianic
- Journals
- Juvenile
- Juvenile Fiction
- Leadership
- Lectionary
- Lent
- Liturgy
- Love and Marriage
- Magazines
- Manners and Customs
- Marriage Difficulties
- Marriage Preparedness
- Men
- Mini Books
- Missions
- Mother's Day
- Mothering
- Multi-Cultural
- Music Book
- New Christian Advice
- Object Lessons for Sermons
- Other Religions
- Parenting
- Pastoral Helps
- Personal Finance
- Philosophy
- Picture Books
- Pneumatology (Theology of the Holy Spirit)
- Poetry
- Politics
- Prayer
- Preaching
- Program Resources
- Promises
- Prophecy
- Psychology
- Puzzles and Games
- Quotes and Fillers
- Recovery
- Religion
- Revival
- Romance Fiction
- Sacraments
- Salvation
- Science and Faith
- Scripture Memory
- Scripture Portions
- Self Help
- Senior Adult
- Sermons
- Sexuality
- Short Stories
- Single Living
- Social Issues
- Spiritual Warfare
- Stewardship
- Story Books
- Surveys
- Suspense Fiction
- Teen
- Teen Fiction
- Thanksgiving
- Theology (Exegetical Historical Practical etc.)
- Theology Proper (God The Father)
- Tracts and Booklets
- Travel
- Trivia and Q&A
- Valentine's Day
- Wedding Planners
- Western Fiction
- Women
- Word Study
- Worship
- Youth Ministry
- Books ( Spanish)
- Activity Books
- Adult Ministries
- Advent
- Adventure Fiction
- Aging
- Allegorical Fiction
- Angelology
- Anthropology
- Apologetics
- Archaeology
- Atlases Charts and Maps
- Bible Dictionaries
- Bible Language Tools
- Bible Personage
- Bible Story Books
- Bible Studies
- Biblical Fiction
- Biblical History
- Biblical Studies
- Bilingual Books
- Biographies
- Business
- Careers
- Catholic
- Character Development
- Charismatic Interests
- Children
- Children's Fiction
- Children's Ministries
- Christian Education
- Christian Living
- Christmas
- Christology (Theology of Jesus Christ the Son)
- Church Administration
- Church Finance
- Church History
- Church Life
- Classic Books
- Commentaries
- Communion
- Comparative Religions
- Concordances
- Contemporary Fiction
- Cookbooks
- Counseling
- Cults and The Occult
- Dating and Sex
- Death and Dying
- Decision Making
- Denominational Concerns
- Devotional
- Dictionaries
- Discipleship
- Divorce
- Drama
- Easter
- Educational
- Encouragement and Lay Counseling
- Encyclopedias
- Eschatology (End Times)
- Essays
- Ethics
- Evangelism
- Faith
- Family Concerns
- Family Entertainment
- Fantasy
- Fathering
- Fiction
- Forgiveness
- Friendship
- Futuristic Fiction
- General Fiction
- Gift Books
- Grief and Consolation
- Handbooks
- Healing
- Health and Diet
- Hermeneutics
- Historical Fiction
- Hobbies and Leisure
- Home Schooling
- Humor
- Inspirational
- Journals
- Juvenile
- Juvenile Fiction
- Leadership
- Lent
- Liturgy
- Love and Marriage
- Manners and Customs
- Marriage Difficulties
- Marriage Preparedness
- Men
- Mini Books
- Missions
- Mothering
- Multi-Cultural
- Music Book
- New Christian Advice
- Other Religions
- Parenting
- Pastoral Helps
- Personal Finance
- Philosophy
- Picture Books
- Pneumatology (Theology of the Holy Spirit)
- Poetry
- Politics
- Prayer
- Preaching
- Program Resources
- Promises
- Prophecy
- Psychology
- Recovery
- Religion
- Romance Fiction
- Sacraments
- Salvation
- Science and Faith
- Self Help
- Sermons
- Sexuality
- Short Stories
- Single Living
- Social Issues
- Spiritual Warfare
- Story Books
- Suspense Fiction
- Teen
- Theology (Exegetical Historical Practical etc.)
- Theology Proper (God The Father)
- Tracts and Booklets
- Trivia and Q&A
- Valentine's Day
- Women
- Worship
- Youth Ministry
- Books (Greek/Hebrew)
- Books (Other Language)
- Art
- Bible Personage
- Bible Story Books
- Bible Studies
- Biblical Fiction
- Biblical Studies
- Bilingual Books
- Biographies
- Catholic
- Character Development
- Charismatic Interests
- Children
- Christian Education
- Christian Living
- Church Administration
- Church History
- Church Life
- Church Management
- Counseling
- Denominational Concerns
- Devotional
- Discipleship
- Educational
- Eschatology (End Times)
- Evangelism
- Faith
- Family Concerns
- Fiction
- Handbooks
- Healing
- Historical Fiction
- Hobbies and Leisure
- Home Schooling
- Inspirational
- Journals
- Juvenile
- Leadership
- Liturgy
- Love and Marriage
- Men
- Missions
- New Christian Advice
- Other Religions
- Pastoral Helps
- Personal Finance
- Picture Books
- Pneumatology (Theology of the Holy Spirit)
- Poetry
- Prayer
- Program Resources
- Recovery
- Romance Fiction
- Sacraments
- Salvation
- Self Help
- Sermons
- Social Issues
- Spiritual Warfare
- Stewardship
- Story Books
- Theology (Exegetical Historical Practical etc.)
- Tracts and Booklets
- Women
- Worship
- Church Supplies
- Food and Drinks
- Games and Toys
- Home Decor
- Jewelry
- Kitchen and Dining
- Misc. Gifts
- Novelties
- Paper Products
- Printed Music
- Recorded Music
- A cappella
- Adult Contemporary
- Alternative/Modern
- Bluegrass
- Catholic
- Celtic
- Children's
- Choral
- Christmas
- Classical
- Collection/Variety
- Comedy
- Compilation
- Contemporary/Pop
- Country
- Dance
- Easter
- Folk
- Gospel
- Hard Rock
- Hymns
- Inspirational
- Instrumental
- Jazz
- Karaoke
- Lullabies
- Messianic
- Metal
- Modern Worship
- Other
- Patriotic
- Piano
- Praise/Worship
- Rap/Hip Hop
- Reggae/Caribbean
- Rock
- Show/Soundtrack
- Southern Gospel
- Spanish/Latin
- Thanksgiving
- Traditional
- Urban/R&B
- Wedding
- World
- Youth/Teen
- Stationery and Cards
- Videos
- Adult Ministries
- Advent
- Adventure Fiction
- Allegorical Fiction
- Apologetics
- Bible Language Tools
- Bible Personage
- Bible Story Books
- Bible Studies
- Biblical Fiction
- Biblical Studies
- Biographies
- Bluegrass
- Business
- Catholic
- Character Development
- Charismatic Interests
- Children
- Children's
- Children's Fiction
- Christian Living
- Christmas
- Christology (Theology of Jesus Christ the Son)
- Church Administration
- Church History
- Church Life
- Comedy
- Contemporary/Pop
- Country
- Dating and Sex
- Death and Dying
- Discipleship
- Documentaries
- Drama
- Easter
- Educational
- Eschatology (End Times)
- Evangelism
- Family Concerns
- Family Entertainment
- Fiction
- Futuristic Fiction
- Gospel
- Health and Diet
- Home Schooling
- Humor
- Hymns
- Inspirational
- Instrumental
- Jazz
- Lent
- Love and Marriage
- Men
- Modern Worship
- Parenting
- Pastoral Helps
- Philosophy
- Picture Books
- Praise/Worship
- Program Resources
- Prophecy
- Science and Faith
- Scripture Portions
- Sermons
- Show/Soundtrack
- Social Issues
- Southern Gospel
- Spanish/Latin
- Teen
- Valentine's Day
- Women
- Youth Ministry
- Videos ( Spanish)
- Vocal Trax
- Wall Decor
Bill Farrel
Showing all 12 results
Men Are Like Waffles Women Are Like Spaghetti
$15.99Add to cartLet Your Differences Make You Irresistible to Each Other
Who knew the differences between you and your spouse could be so delicious?
For men, compartmentalizing-moving from waffle square to waffle square-and dealing with one problem or purpose at a time is the key to maintaining sanity.
For women, every aspect of life is connected by common emotional “noodles.” Like a plate of spaghetti, each thought intersects with every other thought, all flowing together.
Once you understand how your spouse processes feelings and thoughts, you’re on your way to a happy and healthy relationship! Join more than 150,000 other readers as you…
*discover new perspectives to help you communicate effectively and avoid unnecessary frustration
*identify new romance ideas to spice up your marriage when sparks aren’t flying
*apply your combined insights into learning how to parent as a team rather than competingFind all the basic ingredients for loving, working, and winning together in Men Are Like Waffles-Women Are Like Spaghetti.
Secret Language Of Successful Couples
$15.99Add to cartSKU (ISBN): 9780736955874Bill Farrel | Pam FarrelBinding: Trade PaperPublished: 2014Publisher: Harvest House Publishers Print On Demand Product
Red Hot Romance Tips For Women
$7.99Add to cartSKU (ISBN): 9780736951494Bill Farrel | Pam FarrelBinding: Trade PaperPublished: 2014Publisher: Harvest House Publishers Print On Demand Product
Before You Marry Book Of Questions
$15.99Add to cartFrom Bill and Pam Farrel, bestselling authors of Men Are Like Waffles–Women Are Like Spaghetti and Red-Hot Monogamy, comes a new book especially for dating and engaged couples. Filled with their trademark wisdom, humor, and insight, The Before-You-Marry Book of Questions will help couples
delight in their differences
plan their financial future
sort through family obstacles
lay a strong foundation for a marriage that goes the distance
give their marriage to God10 Best Decisions A Man Can Make
$14.99Add to cartMen today have important decisions to make about family, career, and ministry. Sometimes the choices can seem overwhelming, and men end up making decisions by default-by doing what comes naturally rather than by carefully thought-out principles. In The 10 Best Decisions a Man Can Make, popular author and speaker Bill Farrel gives men the hands-on decision-making tools they need to make the kinds of choices they won’t regret. Farrel encourages men to discover the joy of finding their place in God’s plan as they
explore the positive benefits of making healthy decisions:
discover their personal pace in life and make decisions in keeping with that pace
develop a plan for godliness that relieves the burden of self-effort
learn to make decisions based on personal character rather than what feels right at the momentGuys Are Waffles Girls Are Spaghetti
$14.99Add to cartBoy meets Girl; Boy wonders what in the world Girl is talking about and how he will ever keep up. Girl wonders what is wrong with Boy. Enter, Waffles and Spaghetti-every teen’s guide to figuring out the opposite sex and understanding and valuing our unique differences. In a pivotal time of their development and social lives, teens are left to try and understand one another without much guidance. The purpose of this book is to help better understand themselves as well those from the “alien gender”. Guys’ brains are like waffles-they keep their lives compartmentalized in boxes. Girls’ brains are like spaghetti-everything in their life is connected to everything else. This book for teens includes brain development, social habits, differences in emotions, and relationship building skills for teens to develop early in their life. Loaded with humor and fun examples, this is a great way for teens to learn about healthy relationships with the opposite sex.
10 Best Decisions A Couple Can Make
$15.99Add to cartBill and Pam Farrel, bestselling authors of Men Are Like Waffles-Women Are Like Spaghetti, lead husbands and wives through the ten most influential decisions a couple can make to shape a lasting and loving marriage.
Exploring romance, communication, sex, conflict resolution, family, and personalities, the Farrels walk couples through the ten decisions that will turn me and me into “we” strengthen the foundation of their family redeem past bad choices and give hope for a solid future bring balance to roller coaster emotions create a life together of trust, grace, and understanding.
Filled with practical advice, biblical insights, and the Farrels’ trademark warmth and wit, this manual is a terrific gift for newlyweds and just as valuable to longtime marriage partners. Rerelease of Every Marriage Is a Fixer-Upper.
1st Five Years
$16.99Add to cartEvery couple plants seeds of success or failure in the first five years of their marriage. If they lack basic communication skills and the ability to solve conflicts in areas like sex, finances, and emotional intimacy, they won?t make it past the five-year-mark. Authors, speakers, and columnists Bill and Pam Farrel offer sound, simple-to-apply advice to help couples establish firm foundations for their relationships. Based on their own successful twenty-five-year-marriage, Bill (who is also a marriage counselor) and Pam have developed strong principles for staying the course when life challenges their relationship. Lively, fun, and practical for newlyweds anywhere in THE FIRST FIVE YEARS, this book is the best investment a couple can make in building a happy, long-lasting marriage.
Red Hot Monogamy
$15.99Add to cartWith their trademark insight, humor, and candid personal perspectives, Bill and Pam Farrel reveal the truths about the sexual relationship in marriage and what husbands and wives need to know to keep the embers burning.
*Sex is like fireworks!-why a little skill turns marriage into red-hot monogamy
*How sex works best emotionally, physically, and physiologically
*How to avoid the pleasure thieves that steal your chance for fulfillment
*The Farrels present difficult-to-discuss topics and biblical truths in universal language with sensitivity, fun, and understanding.For newlyweds, golden anniversary celebrants, and all couples in between-this book inspires the gift of romance and passion to fuel lives with love.
1 Year Devotions For Men On The Go
$16.99Add to cartDesigned to encourage readers to spend time reading and meditating on the truth of God’s Word, these brief devotions, based solidly in Scripture, are ideal for reading over morning coffee, waiting in the car for children after school, or anytime people “on the go” want to make the most of just a few minutes. These devotions will encourage men and women to meditate on God’s Word daily, even in the midst of a busy, active schedule.
What Am I Here For?
Am I Making a Difference?If you’re like many Christian men these days, you battle forces and responsibilities flying at you from every angle. Family, faith, career, recreation . . . the list is endless, and so is the swirl of dust in your wake as you hit Mach 5 just to keep up. That’s life on the front lines.
Balancing your roles is tough. You may be provider, executive, handyman, husband, father, leader. You spend your waking hours making a living . . . but are you making a life?
We all need a strong support system if we’re going to figure out what it means to live as God’s man.
Each of these brief devotions will encourage you to think about God’s Word daily.
The related Scriptures will provide a solid anchor of truth for every challenge you face.
Be the influential, godly, courageous man that God created you to be.1 Year Devotions For Women On The Go
$16.99Add to cartDesigned to encourage readers to spend time reading and meditating on the truth of God’s Word, these brief devotions, based solidly in Scripture, are ideal for reading over morning coffee, waiting in the car for children after school, or anytime people “on the go” want to make the most of just a few minutes. These devotions will encourage men and women to meditate on God’s Word daily, even in the midst of a busy, active schedule.
If only I had more time! . . .
Have you ever heard those words echo in your mind? Family, faith, and career commitments often leave women feeling overburdened, overworked, overwhelmed-and underpaid.
Welcome to life in the twenty-first century, when your schedule nearly bursts with activities and relationships that demand your attention 24/7.
Discover a bright spot in all that busyness.
The One Year Book of Devotions for Women on the Go provides a daily breath of fresh air that gets to the heart of life’s challenges. You’ll find yourself relating to stories from other women like you, and you’ll get a spiritual pick-me-up from a brief Scripture reading and prayer.
So pour a cup of coffee or tea, put your feet up, and take a few minutes to enjoy these words of encouragement. What better use of your time?
Love Honor And Forgive
$26.00Add to cartIVP Print on Demand Title
I’m sorry. Will you forgive me? Those simple words that we teach children to say can be the most difficult we will ever utter. Whether the issue is trivial or vital, forgiveness can be a challenge to any couple. How do we keep small hurts from building up? How do we forgive when we don’t feel like it? Here Bil and Pam Farrel provide a down-to-earth look at forgiveness as we experience it—or don’t—in our marriages.