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  • Christ Centered Dating


    What if glorifying God and pursuing marriage could happen at the same time?

    Christian singles are often taught that the best way to find “the one” is to glorify God and let him take care of the rest. What if, instead, singles glorified God through their pursuit of marriage?

    In Christ-Centered Dating, popular YouTuber Mark Ballenger challenges each reader to understand the difference between seeking to glorify God for the blessing of a spouse and seeking a spouse for the glory of God. With personal stories, biblical guidance, and real-life application, Mark helps readers understand:

    *Why their beliefs about dating are so crucial to their spiritual lives.
    *How to meet other godly singles.
    *What the eight phases of a healthy dating relationship should be.
    *How to heal from past relationship wounds and idols.
    *Whether or not there is such a thing as “the one.”

    God wants His people to discover the freedom of choosing to put Him first in their relationships. Christ-Centered Dating helps the single Christian reflect His image while actively seeking the person God has chosen as his or her spouse.

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  • Relationship Goals : How To Win At Dating Marriage And Sex


    You scroll through photo after photo of happy couples and think, I want a relationship like that! The thing is, those intimate relationships are a mirage–the closer you get to them, the more you realize they aren’t real at all. So what does a real relationship look like? And how do you get there?

    In Relationship Goals, Pastor Michael Todd digs deep to give you good news and real-life ideas for making the most of your most important relationships. Take a look at:

    – what it means to choose intentional dating over recreational dating
    – how to move on from mistakes you’ve made in the past
    – why love gets stronger after marriage
    – what the Bible has to say about sex (hot take: it’s more sizzling than you think)
    – why the best friendships have God at the center

    Whether you are married, single, or it’s complicated, aiming for the right targets will make all the difference in finding true satisfaction. As it turns out, God’s got the best relationship goals of all for your life. Why settle for less?

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  • Godly Dating 101


    How can you be sure you’ve found “the one”? How do you know when it’s time to leave a relationship that’s turning toxic? Godly Dating 101 answers these questions and more in a practical guide that will help young Christians develop authentic and healthy dating relationships.

    With more than three million followers across Godly Dating 101’s social media accounts, Tovares and Safa Grey hear daily from hundreds of young adults looking for help in their current struggles regarding relationships and purity. Deep down, many Christian young adults are wondering if their relationships are drawing them closer to God or leading them back to the life from which Jesus freed them.

    Godly Dating 101 addresses what you hear from culture and contrasts it with Scripture. As the authors candidly cover topics like friends with benefits, pornography, masturbation, and other areas that affect future marriages, you gain an understanding that what’s considered normal or “fun” from the world’s perspective may not be God’s will for your life. Discover:

    *You are not alone in your relationship struggles
    *God can extend grace and restoration to you no matter what
    *Scripture that points you back to Jesus and what He says about relationships
    *How to find and sustain a relationship that honors God

    This encouraging message will empower you to rise out of confusion, toxic environments, and sin so that you can follow Jesus passionately and experience abundant life in Him as you nurture and develop healthy relationships.

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  • Dont Date A BooBoo Dude


    Many women enter or stay in relationships out of fear of being alone, shame, or insecurity which may cause them to lower their standards or expectations. What they find are men they normally would never have tolerated. Men they would have told their friends to avoid.

    What they find are BooBoo Dudes.

    So, what is a BooBoo Dude?

    While the term BooBoo Dude might be light-hearted, the concept behind them and the damage they cause women is serious. This term describes a man who portrays narcissistic and abusive behavior, which leads to confusion, shame, and eventual isolation.
    Related through Ainsley’s humorous and vulnerable personal experiences, you’ll learn about:

    *the often-unbelievable behaviors of BooBoo Dudes
    *how to exit a futureless relationship with higher standards
    *keeping or restoring your identity through Jesus
    *and reaching others trapped with BooBoo Dudes

    With wisdom rooted in the gospel, Ainsley tenderly brings the reader along her own journey toward confidence found only in Jesus. She embraced her identity and left BooBoo Dudes behind. Every woman can do the same.

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  • Art Of Online Dating


    Whether you’re an old pro at online dating or new to the scene, professional stylist Alyssa Dineen can teach you how to put your best self forward.

    It’s a world that Alyssa had to navigate herself, when she found herself a divorced single mom of two.

    Through sharing her personal experiences and client stories, Alyssa provides readers with a capsule course on the basics of styling an effective online profile, including:

    *Wearing the best clothes for your body type in your profile pic
    *Crafting a bio that conveys your authentic self
    *Taking a selfie you’re proud to post
    *Choosing the right dating app

    Ultimately, The Art of Online dating is about so much more than finding true love. It’s also about rediscovering your personal style–and yourself.

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  • How Should A Christian Date


    Pitch the Christian dating rulebook out the window. There’s a better way!

    No matter what you might have heard, God didn’t mandate a divine way to date. What He did do, in the Bible, is lay out principles for wise and healthy relational living among believers. His boundaries for us are wise and good. But exactly how you apply God’s principles to your dating life is up to you to figure out. All you need is guidance, not micromanagement.

    How Should a Christian Date? doesn’t try to boss you around. It just offers wisdom about the relevant principles in God’s Word. Eric Demeter-a single guy who has given this subject a lot of thought-separates the truths of Scripture from the baggage of Christian dating subculture. He talks to you like a big brother or favorite uncle, not your mother. You’ll cover topics such as:

    *Busting 12 Myths of Christian Dating
    *How to Meet People & Have a Good First Date
    *Clearing the Fog in Sex and Physical Affection
    *Getting the Best from a Breakup
    *Take Dating One Stage at a Time

    There isn’t one “Christian” way to date. But there are ways that Christians should handle themselves while dating . . . and those are the truths to live by.

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  • Dating With Discernment


    Done with dating? Don’t know where to start? Wondering if your date is the one to marry? Pastor-scholar Sam Andreades brings single Christians in that vulnerable life moment the practical, theological help to make the dangerous decision confidently. Bringing the Bible’s wisdom on relationships to bear on the dating scene, he helps you lay a foundation for a love that lasts.

    This book will teach you how to:

    *Confidently say good-bye to ill-suited suitors

    *Deepen your relationship with God as you date

    *Find, and make a lifelong commitment to, a worthy, compatible mate

    *Understand the role of gender in developing intimacy

    *Form a strong foundation for marriage in your dating as you grow into what marriage is about

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  • Dont Believe The Swipe


    Modern dating is not for the faint of heart. Texting, online dating, dating apps, ghosting, social media, and cancel culture have made what was already an emotionally fraught endeavor even more complicated. It can take a toll on your self-esteem and self-worth.

    But the good news is, you can learn to date with dignity, to refuse to let the “swipe” rule your life, and to stand confident and not settle for less than what you deserve. In this funny, in-your-face, and self-affirming book, Mandy Hale gets honest about common frustrations, fears, foibles, and anxieties about modern dating. She offers life-tested advice about how to flip the script on dating, showing you how learning to love yourself first makes all the difference.

    Dating isn’t just about finding someone you can be happy with in the future, it’s about discovering the amazing, dynamic, whole person you are right now, today. So don’t believe the swipe. Let Mandy help you find love without losing yourself.

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  • Outdated : Find Love That Lasts When Dating Has Changed


    Everyone wants to be loved–to find someone who will stick with them through all of life’s ups and downs, someone who is in it for the long haul. But in a world where dating is increasingly based on split-second decisions and geared toward casual relationships rather than marriage, it’s easy for single people to feel discouraged, used, or unworthy of true love and lasting affection. Reality just never seems to match up with our (often wildly unrealistic) expectations.

    Jonathan “JP” Pokluda has counseled thousands of young singles through the pain and heartbreak of dating the world’s way. Now he wants to dispel the myths, misconceptions, and fairy tales you’ve believed about dating and replace them with the truth from the One who invented marriage, created you to crave relationship, and is the very embodiment of true love. With plenty of true stories about relationships healed and love found, this practical book explains God’s purposes for singleness, dating, and marriage and covers why you should date, who you should date, and how you should date.

    If you’re ready to trade the world’s way of dating for the way that actually works, it’s time to begin dating well.

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  • Gen SeXYZ : Love, Sexuality And Youth


    “Corrupt the young. Get them away from religion. Encourage their interest in sex….”-Vladimir Lenin, 1921, How to Destroy the West

    Going through each of the prophetic statements made by Lenin in 1921 shows why America is where it is today. Only 4 percent of Gen Z think about life through a biblical lens. To them, sexuality is more important than friends, family, or their faith.

    Jeff Grenell’s goal in Gen SeXYZ: Love, Sexuality & Youth is to reach youth, youth leaders, and the church with a message that kicks the devil to the curb and restores sexuality to its God-given origins.

    When the church failed to respond to the sexual revolution of the 1960s and the present one of the 21st century, its role in society crumbled. The media stopped censoring, the government redefined marriage, schools taught progressive sex education, and the list of genders grew. We’ve experienced generational loss because we’ve gotten further away from the source of our original knowledge of sexuality: the Bible.

    Jeff points out that our understanding of sexuality must be anchored to the fact that God is love and the devil stole sex. He provides direct quotations from teenagers and leaders, practical knowledge, and tools to launch a spiritual revolution of love and truth that will grow the church to reach younger generations and combat the loveless, godless sexuality ethic in our culture that’s misleading them.

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  • Grown Womans Guide To Online Dating


    Does the thought of joining a dating site invoke feelings of fear and anxiety-or, worse, insecurity or unworthiness? If so, then The Grown Woman’s Guide to Online Dating is the book for you. In it, New York Times bestselling writer and funny lady Margot Starbuck describes her own experiences with online dating-from the often-absurd to the sometimes-serious-and the insights that helped her embrace who she truly is.

    Four years after an unexpected divorce and at the urging of friends, Margot Starbuck ventured into the unknown waters of online dating. Now, sixteen different dating sites and far too many membership fees later, Starbuck offers an inside look into the wild, surprising, and endlessly fascinating world of virtual courtship.

    With practical advice about how these sites work, what to expect, and when to join and quit, along with proven tips for making the most of them, the Grown Woman’s Guide will equip readers with all they need to take the plunge. They’ll discover how to:

    *embrace who they are as women already beloved,
    *create irresistible profiles that highlight what makes them unique,
    *assess what they like and dislike in men’s profiles,
    *write a message that is most likely to get a response,
    *recognize sixteen “red flags” so that they stay safe, and
    *understand and avoid the practices of ghosting and catfishing.

    Starbuck’s honest and reassuring voice is like that of a close girlfriend who cheers on her readers with both humor and biblically based advice. Even as she shares the personal and spiritual growth she experienced in her own journey-including coping with her feelings of loneliness, rejection, and pressure-she reminds them of the unchanging truth that they have always been the beloved of God.

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  • Relationship Goals : How To Win At Dating, Marriage, And Sex


    A candid, inspiring guide to finding lasting love by getting real about your relationship goals–based on the viral sermon series about dating, marriage, and sex.

    Realer than the most real conversation you’ve ever heard in church on the topic, Michael Todd’s honest, heartfelt, and powerful teaching on relationships has already impacted millions. Michael believes that relationships are the epicenter of human thriving. All too often, though, we lack the tools or vision to build our relationships on the wisdom and power of God.

    In other words, it’s good to have a goal, but you can’t get there without proper aim! By charting a course that candidly examines our most common pitfalls, and by unpacking explosive truths from God’s Word, Michael’s debut book will transform a trendy hashtag into a future where your most cherished relationships thrive in relational life, hope, and abundance. Now those are real #relationshipgoals.

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  • Gods Path For Selecting A Love That Lasts


    Leah Heling Title

    Selecting a Mate without the Heartaches

    God’s Path for Selecting a Love that Lasts reveals dating guidelines for choosing a suitable spouse. Selecting an appropriate mate can increase the likelihood of a thriving marriage and reduce the risk of divorce believes Leah Heling, educator, author, and parent. Her Scripture-based instruction guide will help singles avoid the heartaches and dangers of modern dating.

    What Are Your Dating Concerns?
    *I doubt I will ever find a Christian to marry.
    *How will I know when I meet the right person?
    *In the past I was promiscuous, but for years I have remained pure.
    *Because I don’t want to be hurt again, I have given up dating.

    Find answers to these and other concerns when you read the book. You will:
    *Read about God’s principles for selecting the most appropriate spouse and when.
    *Discover how to remain faithful to a potential future spouse.
    *Learn biblical approaches to sexual purity and the benefits of secondary virginity.
    *Discover the risks of flirting and immodesty.
    *Understand the importance of sequential bonding before marriage.
    *Examine God’s basic three-fold design for marriage to keep in mind while dating.
    *Realize God’s principles that will prepare you for a lifelong, satisfying marriage.
    *Appreciate God’s truths for living happily single.

    Book Features
    *Bible verses and principles
    *True-life stories
    *Assessments for personal reflection and growth
    *Study questions after each chapter

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  • Unnecessary Complications : Christian Dating In A Modern World


    Mills Press Title

    The entire contemporary Christian culture is dating wrong. The Bible doesn’t expressly talk about dating and we take this as a license to start making things up. Most of the time Christian dating looks very similar to the world’s way, only with a cross around its neck. The way we date invites pain, baggage, break-ups, and confusion. It is at best unhelpful and at worst harmful. We need to do something different. We need to do something better. We need to rethink the way we think about dating. That’s what this book is about. This book was written to change a paradigm. This book looks at the way our society dates, identifies how the current paradigm is harmful and shows us a better way. There is a way that will stop us from making finding a spouse harder than it needs to be. There is a way that will make it easier for us to honor God in our pursuit of marriage.

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  • Love That Lasts


    In Love That Lasts, New York Times bestselling author of Jesus > Religion Jefferson Bethke and his wife, Alyssa, expose the distorted views of love that permeate our culture and damage our hearts, minds, and souls.

    Drawing from Jeff’s “prodigal son” personal history and from Alyssa’s “True Love Waits” experience, the Bethkes point to a third and better way. Blending personal storytelling with biblical teaching, they offer readers an inspiring, realistic vision of love, dating, marriage, and sex.

    Young people today enter adulthood with expectations of blissful dating followed by a romantic, fulfilling marriage only to discover they’ve been duped. They learned about love and sexuality from social media, their friends, Disney fairy tales, pornography, or even their own rocky past, and they have no idea what healthy, lifelong love is supposed to be like. The results are often disastrous, with this generation becoming one of the most relationally sick, sexually addicted, and divorce ridden in history.

    Looking to God’s design while drawing lessons from their own successes and failures, the Bethkes explode the fictions and falsehoods of our current moment. One by one, they peel back the lies, such as the belief that every person has only one soul mate, that marriage will complete you, or that pornography and hook-ups are harmless.

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  • Single Dating Engaged Married


    Navigating the Four Critical Seasons of Relationship

    The vast majority of young people will still pass through the key phases of singleness, dating, engagement and marriage in their twenties. Yet they are delaying marriage longer than any generation in human history. Why?

    For the first time in history, the average age for an American woman having her first child, 26, is younger than the average age of her first marriage, 27. More children than ever are growing up in fatherless homes, despite the overwhelming evidence that in every measurable way this is bad for the child. The Center for Disease Control also recently reported a dramatic rise in sexually transmitted disease nationwide. In Rhode Island alone, since the onset of online dating, reported cases of Syphilis has risen 79%, and HIV has increased by 33%. Though many young people can avoid early pregnancy and STDS, most cannot dodge the depression and feelings of isolation that characterize this modern generation. Studies show a dramatic rise in self-reported loneliness among the young. All of our technological connectivity has not made us feel more connected. In many ways, the very screens that are meant to link us to others have become shields blocking us from the deep intimacy we crave. Many have discovered that where there is a lack of intimacy,addiction often rises to take its place. How can a young person navigate such troubled waters? Is there hope out there?

    Like a sailor on turbulent seas, we need to look up and see the North Star: the fixed points in the sky whereby we might navigate the objective realities in life. We need the skill-set to know how to journey through life and how to select the right people to journey alongside. In this book we will chart a course through the four relational phases that the vast majority of human beings on the planet will pass through in their twenties: singleness, dating, engaged and married. In each of these phases, we will look at what eternal purposes should be pursued in each stage, and how to pursue them.





    Our desires for intimacy are powerful. This power can be constructive or destructive. Our satisfaction and our safety will be ensured if we can aim these powerful desires toward divine purposes.

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  • Steps To Online Dating Success


    What You Need to Know About Online Dating… First! Online dating is not all fun and games and there are a lot of things that a person has to know about online dating before one gets into the intricacies of it. Online dating may seem to be the simplest thing in the world but it is not.

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  • Yes Only To The Right Person


    “Yes only to the Right Person: A guide to Choosing the Right Partner” answers these questions by guiding you in making an honest appraisal of a person/relationship before handing over your heart. After reading this book; you can only be in a romantic relationship with the wrong person, by choice.

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  • Mastering Life Before Its Too Late


    Pastor Rob Morgan provides ten biblical laws for pleasantly productive people by answering the question: How do I gain mastery of my life before it’s too late?

    A lifelong student of the Bible, Rob Morgan has spent forty years reading thousands of pages about maximizing each day and becoming purposeful and productive. Now he has found a simple plan that works-featuring ten biblical principles that transcend human wisdom. These life patterns can be implemented today whether you’re a student or a senior adult, a novice or an executive. They can help anyone, anytime, anywhere develop a perpetually effective life.

    1. Listen to a twelve-year-old: Jesus’ first statement was: Be about your Father’s business.
    2. Redeem the time: Wasted hours can never be regained.
    3. Clear the decks: God isn’t disorganized; why should we be?
    4. Maximize the morning: Schedule a standing appointment with God.
    5. Pull off at rest stops: Routinely replenish your inner resources.
    6. Operate on yourself: Diagnose and treat yourself spiritually.
    7. Live “As If”: Act by faith even when your emotions aren’t cooperating.
    8. Bathe in the Dead Sea: Experience the buoyancy of biblical joy.
    9. Practice the power of plodding: Effectively complete major tasks by persistently working in small increments.
    10. Remember there are two of you: It’s Christ in you Who’s achieving significance.

    Based on actual Scriptures, this simple, hope-filled plan for mastering life before it’s too late will put you on the path toward a lifetime of success.

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  • Prude : Misconceptions Of A Neo Virgin


    “SEX. LOVE. VIRGINITY? In the dating game, the V-word has become as strange and complicated as the L-word, with purity as outdated as pay phones. What is an ex-athiest, post-porn addict, unorthodox Christian girl to do these days? How can she create boundaries without scaring off every available guy? Is purity even possible without being puritanical? In this candid, humorous account of the true-life trials of Christian dating, the author shares the wisdom she’s gleaned in her quest for love in a modern world. She guides with grace and honesty through the often hush-hush topics of sex, porn, shame, female competition, misconceptions about purity, and those dreaded “waiting till marriage: conversations.

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  • New Rules For Love Sex And Dating


    “Are you who the person you are looking for is looking for?” – Andy Stanley

    Single? Looking for the “right person”? Thinking that if you met the “right person” everything would turn out “right”? Think again.

    In The New Rules for Love, Sex & Dating, Andy Stanley explores the challenges, assumptions, and land mines associated with dating in the twenty-first century. Best of all, he offers the most practical and uncensored advice you will ever hear on this topic.

    Not for the faint of heart, The New Rules for Love, Sex & Dating challenges single Christ followers to step up and set a new standard for this generation!

    “If you don’t want a marriage like the majority of marriages,” says Stanley, “then stop dating like the majority of daters!”

    Part One: “The Right Person Myth” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-5
    Part Two: “Gentleman’s Club” – 1 Peter 3:7
    Part Three: “Designer Sex” – 1 Corinthians 6:18
    Part Four: “If I Were You” – Proverbs 14:8

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  • Choosing A Mate Gods Way


    If you are single, divorced, or the parent of a young person, “Choosing A Mate God’s Way: Marriage Minded Dating” is a must read! You will explore God’s Word and find His plan for dating and choosing a mate His way!”

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  • Look Before You Leap


    The concept in this book was born out of over 25 years of experience working with couples. Many couples said they saw red flags while dating but thought things would get better and change once they got married. Being in love blinded their eyes (or better judgment) of how marriage only intensifies those red flag issues. There is a real need for an understanding of what the dating and courtship experience is all about. We do more research when buying a car than we do in choosing a lifetime partner. “Look Before You Leap” is a simple and easy to understand guide to help single men and women know the different phases of dating so that they can make the best possible choice for their mate. You’ll never look at dating the same.

    Regina Stafford has written a practical book on dating that is based on her experience with her husband Thomas, as well as much time spent counseling couples in our local church. She has seen firsthand the heartbreak and devastation that takes place when people mimic the world instead of the bible as their guide for healthy relationships. I especially pray that young people would embrace these principles!

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  • Sex And The Single Christian Girl


    Straight Talk on Sexual Temptation and the Tools to Overcome It

    True love waits…but then what? Many Christian women pledged as teenagers to remain pure for marriage, but the rhetoric falls short as they enter adulthood and encounter more serious romantic relationships. Bombarded with images of Hollywood’s version of romance, women facing real-world temptation may be wondering what they’re missing and if the wait is really worth it.

    Marian Jordan Ellis has been there. She struggled with the same temptations, the same questions, the same challenges of being a single Christian adult in today’s anything-goes culture. Now she wants to share what she learned. Emphasizing that women are cherished by God and their purity is worth fighting for, Marian offers much-needed advice on triumphing over the sexual pitfalls of dating and romance.

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  • Sex Plus Faith


    Talking with your child about sex can be scary! Sex + Faith helps parents incorporate their faith values with sexual information so they can answer questions, discuss sexuality at each stage of childhood, and show support of sexual differences. Section one explains how faith relates to sexuality and the essential role parents play in forming healthy, faithful, sexual children . The second section designates a chapter for four age groupings of children from infancy through high school. Each chapter explains the biological and developmental issues of the age, answers questions children tend to have, provides relevant Biblical and faith stories helpful to discuss with children of that age, and lists five to ten key educational issues for parents to keep in mind. Shaded text boxes are interspersed throughout the book with real life, practical questions that parents and children ask. Expertly written by Kate Ott, Sex + Faith is an easy to use reference guide for parents of kids of all ages.

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  • Bare Naked Truth


    The Truth About Sex and Waiting … Uncovered and Revealed Purity. Sex. Boys. Waiting. Something about those words makes everything complex in a heartbeat. Is there something wrong with me if I don’t kiss a boy after a date? Or am I doomed if I did? Is waiting a one-way trip to life as a crazy cat woman? And what if I, um, think about a certain boy a certain way? It seems the lady at church and your friends have two very different opinions on the subject. And the purity talks aren’t always cutting it. Bekah Hamrick Martin knows the waiting game isn’t easy or straight-forward. In The Bare Naked Truth, she lays everything on the table—including some embarrassing moments—as she explores the honest, naked truth behind what God means by purity. With additional entries from popular authors, you’ll see the bare naked approach to waiting isn’t always easy, but it’s worth the risk.

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  • Cinderella Rule : A Young Womans Guide To Happily Ever After


    Stop Looking for Prince Charming–Let Him Look for You Of all the fairytale princesses we know and love, Cinderella is the one who got it right. She knew the spell was about to break, and ran out of the castle just in time to keep her mysterious identity a secret. Prince Charming couldn’t help himself! He had to pursue her, to track her down and invite her to be his queen.The Cinderella Rule is your guide to letting your prince do the work. Whether he knows it or not, the man God has for you longs to experience the thrill of the chase . . . and that means running out of the castle before you give away all your secrets! Find out how to be a woman of mystery who lets herself be pursued, knowing you are worth every ounce of effort. The Cinderella Rule will show you how to be the queen your prince is already looking for.

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  • Sexual Purity : A Bold Look


    This book is designed to provoke conversation among adolescents and adults and to draw everyone into considering God’s principles of holiness in sexual matters. It is an excellent study manual for Sunday Schools and Youth Groups. Also, the contents can be used in a whole-church setting. IT’S TIME WE TALK!

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  • Truth About Breaking Up Making Up And Moving On


    Breaking up is hard to do, and it affects almost every teen at some point. This third addition to Chad Eastman’s bestselling series will be a great resource for teens.

    Ending a relationship, or being broken up with, is a common experience for teenagers, but they don’t always know how to deal with those situations in a healthy way. Using humor, Scripture, and practical advice, this book will give girls the tools they need to handle these events in their life and give them some fresh perspective as well. This is also a great resource for parents, youth leaders, school counselors, and anyone working with youth to equip them to walk with the teens who are experiencing heartache and tough decisions about relationships.

    The way people handle relationships as teenagers can set a precedent for how they relate with others for the rest of their lives; this book will give teens a foundation for a lifetime of healthy relationships.

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  • Dating After Divorce


    Starting over…it’s not as easy as it sounds, is it? But, you ve made it through the pain of divorce, and you are eager for a new beginning. God stands ready to help He is the God of possibilities. As you look toward the future, you may begin to ask questions about what a new life might look like. Will I ever remarry, you wonder. Do I want to remarry?

    There are other questions: How much time should pass after a marriage ends before it s wise to explore a new friendship or romance? Am I ready-emotionally, spiritually, financially? Is my family prepared? Do I need to be completely put-back-together before I can think about dating again or being remarried?

    Dave and Lisa Frisbie have spent 20 years studying the post-divorce family, and have been dubbed America s Remarriage Experts. In Dating After Divorce, they share stories of adults who chose to remain single after divorce and explore why that choice might make sense for you. They also share stories of people who chose to begin dating and eventually to remarry. Dating after Divorce will help you gauge your readiness and evaluate your options, as you move forward to discover a new life and embrace all God has in store.

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  • Is This The One


    In Is This the One?, Steve Arterburn—an award-winning author and the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries, the largest faith-based broadcast counseling and treatment ministry—has created a ‘how to’ plan for happier, stronger marriages. He contends that living in a ‘no regrets’ relationship can be as simple following this spiritually solid and personally drawn plan before the first ‘I do’ is even spoken. Host of the number one Christian radio broadcast, ‘New Life Live!,’ Arterburn draws a painfully personal portrait of the devastation divorce has on a family. Rather than aiming at marriages already in jeopardy, Arterburn focuses attention on the beginning of relationships—before the commitment, before the emotional investment, before the children. He prescribes three sets of ten carefully devised dates designed to help couples reveal their true colors and clarify whether or not they are a compatible match. This practical, personal, and positive plan can impact marriages—and ground the skyrocketing divorce rate—as no other book has.

    Is This the One? is a must read for engaged or dating couples, happy singles, concerned parents, and anyone who wants to make better decisions about who to marry and who to leave behind.

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  • 20 First Dates


    Humorous accounts of the author’s search for Mr Right with practical advice and encouragement for fellow seekers.

    Rebecca K. Maddox is 30 years old. After many years as a single Christian woman, she embarked on a dating experiment – to go on twenty first dates, with twenty men, met in twenty different ways.

    Over the course of a year, Rebecca was almost compromised on the dance floor, stranded in a muddy village and the catcher of a bouquet. She sheltered under a cupcake box, waited nervously in line for results and spent hours trawling profiles on the Internet. She was driven in a rusty car with no floor and chased by an angry granny. She narrowly escaped a squirting tiger and a falling pigeon, attempted to eat a variety of foodstuffs while trying to look attractive, and struggled in and out of her glad rags in the toilets of approximately ten trains to London. She was confused, amused, frustrated and dazzled in equal measure.

    This is the true story of one woman’s determined search for the man of her dreams, with plenty of practical advice on the world of Christian dating.

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  • Truth About Guys


    Okay, it’s a fact. God made guys and girls different in more ways than just the physical.

    But how different could we really be? After all, we are all made in His image, right? Well, yes, but let’s just say that guys and girls view the world in such different ways, that it’s a miracle we communicate at all. What’s worse is that girls this age often think they know what makes guys tick. That couldn’t be more wrong!

    Chad Eastham tells it like it is . . . to girls . . . from a guy’s perspective. As a popular presenter at Revolve conferences, he is known for his ability to speak truth and to give girls clearer perspective about guys and themselves as well as understand their own value. Chad explains, “You are incredibly valuable and worthy simply because God created you.”

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  • Catholic Handbook On Sex


    A survey of church teaching about sex, written in a breezy but staunchly orthodox style, that will both appeal to and challenge young adults.

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  • GLAM Girls Guide To Sex


    Sex is everywhere.You can turn off the television, never buy another magazine, and keep your children home until their grown, but we absolutely cannot keep them from learning about sexuality…and it would be wrong if we tried. Often people still grasping at some form of morality over-react to our sex saturated society and stick their heads in the sand, letting people make God’s gift to a man and his wife, dirty. Our young people want to learn about this subject, and if their mentors zip their mouths and make it uncomfortable, they will go to other sources. The G.L.A.M. Girl’s Guide To Sex is a book to teach young ladies that they need to prepare their hearts for purity so when they are faced with (and they will be at some point) the temptation to yield to the lust of the flesh, they will instead stand up for Christ.

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  • What Is He Thinking


    In WHAT IS HE THINKING??, Rebecca interviews a range of men from high-profile types to the guys next door, men that every woman can relate to. Although the interviews focus on single guys ages 20-35, Rebecca also includes words of wisdom from older mentors she respects who have been successfully married for years, people like her dad, life coach, and pastor.

    The men share their thoughts on topics like how women can respect themselves and the men in their lives, modesty, purity, taking it slow, friendship, letting guys lead, and more. This book gives them the floor to say what they would really like women to know.

    The men respond candidly to questions such as:
    *What is the most attractive quality to you in a woman?
    *Is modesty truly attractive?
    *Is neediness a turn-off?
    *What do you find beautiful?
    *How can we be dependent on God for our identity, not on you?
    *How can we help you with boundaries physically?

    Rebecca also discusses her own dating life, speaking openly about the single life, her struggle with loneliness, and her hope for the future. She challenges women to see the men in their lives as brothers in Christ and to trust God with their dating lives.

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  • Bare Facts : 39 Questions Your Parents Hope You Never Ask About Sex


    Sex is everywhere. And misunderstandings about it are even more pervasive.

    Whether you have questions of your own and don’t know who to ask, or you are being asked questions and don’t know where to turn-this small book has the answers.

    Bestselling author and speaker, Josh McDowell believes that no question is off limits and that knowledge, not ignorance, is the key to youthful purity and a fulfilling marriage and family. This book builds on that approach with relevant, pertinent statistics, entertaining anecdotes, and real stories.

    This little book will be a very practical tool in the hands of anyone who is struggling, anyone who is curious, anyone who is nervous about asking a “dumb question,” and most importantly, anyone who desires to learn how to honor God with his or her body. The Bible is clear on a lot of these issues and Josh’s candor (and respect for young people) shines through as he shares these truths about sex.

    Much like Josh’s apologetics books, this book will help equip a skeptical generation with the facts they are sorely missing.

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  • Youre Worth The Wait


    Divine Purpose Publishing

    This is a must read. In a world full of perversion this book has been designed to help young ladies discover their true identity. This book deals with subjects such as low self esteem, healthy vs unhealthy relationships, definitions of common STD’S, learning how to love yourself and not compete with others, celebrating others and much more. This book has over 50 Worth The Wait Questions, a crossroad puzzle, journal, and much more.This book is a perfect tool for youth leaders, mentors, educators, counselors, and parents, to encourage abstinence.

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  • Truth About Dating Love And Just Being Friends


    Chad Eastham, with his typical wit and wisdom for teens, brings much sought after advice on girls’ favorite topics including dating, love, friendship, and other important stuff.

    Chad shines some much-needed light on these major issues for teens. Rather than let their feelings navigate them blindly through their tumultuous adolescence, Chad offers clarity, some surprising revelations, and answers to some of their biggest questions: How do I know who to date? When should I start dating? How should I start dating? Is this really love? And, Why do guys I like just want to be friends?

    Packed with humor that adds to the sound advice, this book will help teens make better decisions, have healthier relationships, and be more prepared for their futures. Just a few things girls will learn include: Five things you need to know about love; Eight dumb dating things even smart people do; Ten reasons why teens are unhappy; and Ten things happy teens do.

    Any teen can live a happier, healthier life: they just need to hear The Truth.

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  • Making Sense Of Sex


    Having sex can be a loving and delightful experience, but it can also be emotionally, physically, and spiritually devastating. Many singles struggle to sort out how to make their own sexual experiences physically and emotionally healthy ones. This book can help. Duffy offers a thoughtful guide to sexual decision-making for single twentysomethings, exploring ten issues readers should consider when deciding whether and when to have sex. Appropriate for non-Christians and Christians alike, Duffy’s work is as relevant to those who have already had sex as it is to those who are considering it for the first time.

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  • Things I Wish Id Known Before We Got Married


    “Most people spend far more time in preparation for their vocation than they do in preparation for marriage,” Dr. Gary Chapman

    No wonder the divorce rate hovers around fifty percent.

    Bestselling author and marriage counselor, Gary Chapman, hopes to change that with his newest book. Gary, with more than 35 years of counseling couples, believes that divorce is the lack of preparation for marriage and the failure to learn the skills of working together as intimate teammates.

    So he put together this practical little book, packed with wisdom and tips that will help many develop the loving, supportive and mutually beneficial marriage men and women long for. It’s the type of information Gary himself wished he had before he got married.

    This is not a book simply to be read. It is a book to be experienced. The material lends itself to heart-felt discussions by dating or engaged couples. To jump-start the exchanges, each short chapter includes insightful “Talking it Over” questions and suggestions. And, the book includes information on interactive websites as well as books that will enhance the couples experience.

    Dr. Chapman even includes a thought-provoking appendix. By understanding and balancing the five key aspects of life, dating couples can experience a healthy dating relationship. A revealing learning exercise for dating couples is included at the end.

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  • Thank God For Sex


    SKU (ISBN): 9781609572808Frantz LamourBinding: Trade PaperPublished: 2010Publisher: Xulon Press Print On Demand Product

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  • Young Hearts Pure Lives


    Staying pure in a reckless world…is that even possible in the culture we live in today?
    Young Hearts, Pure Lives addresses the fact that God created sex because He has a plan and that plan is good! This program encourages young women to believe that they are worth waiting for! It teaches them to be responsible in making wise choices in friends; setting standards and boundaries in dating relationships; recognizing the media’s persuasion of selling sex; observing the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases; and understanding God’s forgiveness and cleansing power. He truly is the God of the first and second chance!

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  • Confessions Of A Non Barbie


    Take it from a gal who’s been there: dating can be difficult! Kinda Wilson, in a stunning debut, leads teen and twenties girls by the hand as they navigate through tough waters. Tackling such issues as self-esteem and appearance, looking for a date, dating, breaking up, and moving on, Kinda combines humor and compassion as she helps rebuild your confidence. With a Christian perspective on dating, you will realize your precious and unique worth as God’s girl – regardless of your “success” (or lack of) in the dating world. Chapter titles include:
    God says I’m beautiful, but today I’m not feelin’ it!
    I’m tired of dating Jesus…and I think the feeling is mutual
    I think I saw a sparkler…let’s make out
    God, smite my enemies!
    I’ve been slam-dumped!
    Guys are like gangrene

    Learn how to overcome issues you face every day with humor and grace!

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  • Why Wait : What Singles Need To Know About Sex And Dating


    find the answers. Why Wait? What Singles Need to Know About Sex and Dating is written for you and answers the most common and often controversial questions you have about sex.

    These questions and more are answered:

    ?Isn’t “no sex before marriage” just for nerds?
    ?What’s so special and sacred about sex, anyway?
    ?Why is premarital sex sometimes called sin?
    ?What’s the big deal about losing my virginity?
    ?How far is going too far?
    ?QUIZ: Is my dating relationship healthy?
    ?What if I’ve already had sex?
    ?How can I keep from having sex until I’m married?

    Everything you ever wanted to know about sexuality is discussed-so you can make up your own mind about where you stand on premarital sex.

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  • Starting Over : How Not To Screw Up Your Next Relationship


    Your last relationship didn’t work out, and you got hurt-and maybe you also hurt someone else. Now what? Perhaps you are thinking about starting over with someone new, but you’re nervous and wondering if you are really ready for another relationship.

    William P. Smith tackles head-on the issues you need to face as you think about starting a new relationship-past hurts, learning to trust someone new, and understanding your own failings and mistakes. You will be reassured that God is at work in your life, and that growing in your trust and love for him will free you to love well those he puts in your life.

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  • Woman Dont Be Stoopid


    Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness???”2 Corinthians 6:14 From the beginning, Satan has declared war on the family. But now, Satan is stepping up his attack on the family to bring it down??”with the help of Christian women. Satan has found that the best way for him to destroy the family is to start from its formation??”by getting Christian women to date and marry men who are not true brothers in the Lord. In this endeavor, Satan is succeeding big time, and will continue to do so, unless Christian women everywhere wake up and realize what is happening. They also need to recognize who they are, and why they should not settle for anything less than a man who is a true brother in the Lord. This book will help in that endeavor, as well as expose Satan’s plan for Christian women everywhere. Topics covered in this book include: Reasons why Christian women choose to date and marry unsaved men. The consequences Christian women will suffer for pursuing unsaved men. The consequences their children and future husbands will suffer as well. How Christian women misuse the Gospel of Jesus while dating unsaved men. The excuses Christian women give to justify their disobedience. How to heal from past ungodly relationships. How to be the woman that a Christian man will want to pursue.

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  • So You Want To Date My Daughter


    HELP!!!! I have no idea how to guide my kids through today’s world of dating and relationships! This is your desperate cry if you are a parent today. In a society where movies and television shows present sexual promiscuity as normal and divorce as part of most people’s lives, how can you and your children possibly beat the odds? In fact, you probably don’t know anyone who has. Now you do! Joel and Linda Budd have beat the odds, and they want to tell you what they have learned so you and your children can too. In this practical book, you will discover the perfect design for dating and being engaged. You can help your children reach their goals for a great marriage and a wonderful life with their spouse. The teenage, dating years don’t have to be a nightmare! In fact, they can be some of the most exciting, wonderful times with your children.

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  • Almost Sex


    SKU (ISBN): 9780800733780Michael DiMarco | Hayley DiMarcoBinding: Trade PaperPublished: 2009Publisher: Revell Print On Demand Product

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  • Good Man Is Hard To Find


    Thank you for your interest in A Good Man is Hard to Find, Even in the Church. I believe this book will help you with the task of finding a suitable mate and the wait that comes along with it. This book takes a few-holds-barred approach in sharing the perks and quirks of dating and will help people avoid unnecessary drama in their spouse-finding/keeping efforts. What makes this book unique is its approach – pure honesty! Things I did not want to include, I included just to make my point clear through example. Experience is a good teacher, but I don’t believe we have to learn from our own experiences. We can also learn from the experiences of others. Why burn yourself on the stove when Momma can already tell you that the stove is hot? I dare to expose the truth since it’s the truth that sets us free!

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  • Guys Like Girls Who


    Every girl has wondered how they need to act or what they need to do to get a certain boy’s attention. Now they can know! Chad Eastham will encourage girls to be confident in who they are and Whose they are. Girls need to know that they are treasures to be adored and that how she feels about herself is how guys will treat her. Chapter titles add fun and interest to this life-altering message. Guys Like Girls Who . . .
    Wear Jeans (comfortable with who they are and Whose they are)
    Know the Future (understand there is a 96% chance this is not the boy they will marry so don’t act like they are)
    Leave Us Alone (have their own hobbies)
    Can Spell (can say “no”)
    Eat Tofu (live a healthy lifestyle)

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  • Everlasting Purity


    SKU (ISBN): 9781606473627Jessica PsalidasBinding: PerfectPublished: 2008Publisher: Xulon Press Print On Demand Product

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  • Wait For Me


    A call to young people to remain sexually pure until marriage.

    Everyone longs to be loved deeply by someone, and Rebecca St. James is no different, as demonstrated by her hit song “Wait for Me.” In this revised and updated version of the 2002 release, Rebecca shares the same desires as other young people as her resolve to remain sexually pure until marriage is not common in our society.

    Using Scripture, pop culture, and her own experience as a point of reference, Rebecca paints a relevant and appealing picture of the value of waiting. But Rebecca also reaches out with compassion to those who have already made mistakes and reveals the mercy and healing that God brings.

    The new editon of this bestseller includes: a fresh design (inside and out) with eye-catching graphics; a new introduction from Rebecca; journaling sections throughout the book; and a study guide for personal or group use.

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  • What Women Wish You Knew About Dating


    SKU (ISBN): 9780801068409Stephen SimpsonBinding: Trade PaperPublished: 2008Publisher: Baker Publishing Group Print On Demand Product

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  • Before You Get Engaged


    Helps couples who are thinking about getting engaged know if they are ready to offer or accept a marriage proposal. In Before You Get Engaged, authors David Gudgel, his son Brent, and Brent’s girlfriend Danielle interact in a discussion that not only reveals twelve relational indicators indispensable to a healthy, lasting marriage, but fleshes them out with dialogue and insight straight from Brent and Danielle’s journals. Designed to help daters know if engagement is truly the best next step in their relationship, the book is divided into four sections:
    Part 1: Are You Sure You’re Ready?
    Part 2: Do You Make a Good Couple?
    Part 3: What Do Others Think?
    Part 4: Now What Should You Do?

    Before You Get Engaged will help readers know if they are ready to ask the all important question, if they should date a little longer, or end the relationship and move on.

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  • When Young Men Are Tempted


    When Young Men are Tempted addresses the issue of sexual purity with realism and practicality for today’s postmodern youth.

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  • Doing Things Right In Matters Of The Heart


    There is a radical, biblical alternative to much of what is taught and practiced today regarding relationships. Doing Things Right in Matters of the Heart presents a bold plan for escaping the swift currents of contemporary patterns of hooking up, shacking up, and breaking up. It draws a compelling vision of complementarity between the sexes. It instructs men on what to do and informs women on what to look for in their mutual pursuit of a healthy, tender, long-term relationship.

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  • Real Sex : The Naked Truth About Chastity


    A young, single woman wrestles with the difficulty of practicing the Christian virtue of celibacy in a sex-saturated culture.

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  • Falling In Love For All The Right Reasons


    Whether you have never been married or are single again after a death or divorce, you can meet a wonderful person who wants to share your life at the deepest levels. This eye-opening guide explains the essential rules for finding true love. Falling in Love for all the Right Reasons helps you avoid wasting years on the wrong person and the pain of a broken heart. Instead, it opens the door to finding a love that you can relish for a lifetime and, what’s more, shows you how to begin a successful search right now!

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  • Sex 180


    SKU (ISBN): 9780801045295Chip Ingram | Tim WalkerBinding: Trade PaperPublished: 2005Publisher: Baker Publishing Group Print On Demand Product

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  • Ending Violence In Teen Dating Relationships


    Foreword By Dr. Jill Murray

    1.Hell On Earth: Violence In The Dating Relationships Of Christian Teens
    2.How Christian Teachings And Popular Culture Contribute To Teen Dating Violence
    3.Unique Challenges: Dating Violence Among Urban African Ameridcan Teens
    4.How Clergy, Youth Ministers, Christian Educators, And Parents Can Help
    5.Healthy Teen Dating Relationships: Why Teamwork Is Essential

    Appendix A: Qualities Of A Healthy Christian Marriage: A Sermon On Domestic Violence Awareness
    Appendix B: Selected Resources

    Additional Info
    Miles, a nationally recognized expert in the field of domestic violence and teen relationship violence, explores the complex issue of teen dating violence. Through interviews and other research, he provides critical information that parents, caregivers, clergy, and educators can use to protect teens and help them foster healthy dating relationships.

    Miles offers thoughtful advice and answers to such questions as: What constitutes violence in teen dating relationships? Why is the problem so pervasive? What are the warning signs that parents and other caring adults can watch for that may indicate a teen is being either abused or abusive? And what can the church do to help?

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  • Sex And The Single Christian


    FORNICATION: CONSENSUAL SEXUAL INTERCOURSE BETWEEN TWO PERSONS NOT MARRIED TO EACH OTHER What does God say about fornication? To avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. (I Corinthians 7:2 kjv) In her book, Pastor Alexis Soberanis explores the dangerous and devastating effects of fornication. She reveals that when God instructed the human race to avoid fornication at all costs, He provided a beautiful alternative-the covenant of marriage. “Marriage is honorable, and the bed is undefiled, but fornicators and adulterers God will judge” (Hebrews 13:4 nkjv). Pastor Soberanis demonstrates how the act of fornication will continue to affect generations unless the cycle of pre-marital sex is broken by the power and blood of Jesus Christ. Fornication is a forgivable sin, but it has disturbing consequences, including incurable sexual diseases; mass murder (by abortions); unplanned and unwanted children, resulting in hundreds of thousands of them having to be placed in the foster care system (many of these foster homes are incompatible and abusive); and most recently, many newborns being disposed of in garbage dumpsters by unwed teenage girls not emotionally and psychologically prepared for motherhood. Pastor Soberanis’ desire is that every single who reads this book will make the decision to accept God’s alternative to pre-marital sex, which is to wait for their Godordained spouse, leading into the confines of marriage, and in the process, canceling the generational iniquity of fornication and fatherlessness and starting a new blessing of sexual abstinence until marriage, resulting in strong and lasting family units.

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  • Sex And The Single Christian


    FORNICATION: CONSENSUAL SEXUAL INTERCOURSE BETWEEN TWO PERSONS NOT MARRIED TO EACH OTHER What does God say about fornication? To avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. (I Corinthians 7:2 kjv) In her book, Pastor Alexis Soberanis explores the dangerous and devastating effects of fornication. She reveals that when God instructed the human race to avoid fornication at all costs, He provided a beautiful alternative-the covenant of marriage. “Marriage is honorable, and the bed is undefiled, but fornicators and adulterers God will judge” (Hebrews 13:4 nkjv). Pastor Soberanis demonstrates how the act of fornication will continue to affect generations unless the cycle of pre-marital sex is broken by the power and blood of Jesus Christ. Fornication is a forgivable sin, but it has disturbing consequences, including incurable sexual diseases; mass murder (by abortions); unplanned and unwanted children, resulting in hundreds of thousands of them having to be placed in the foster care system (many of these foster homes are incompatible and abusive); and most recently, many newborns being disposed of in garbage dumpsters by unwed teenage girls not emotionally and psychologically prepared for motherhood. Pastor Soberanis’ desire is that every single who reads this book will make the decision to accept God’s alternative to pre-marital sex, which is to wait for their Godordained spouse, leading into the confines of marriage, and in the process, canceling the generational iniquity of fornication and fatherlessness and starting a new blessing of sexual abstinence until marriage, resulting in strong and lasting family units.

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  • Purpose And Power Of Waiting And Dating


    This book tracks through the murky waters of relationships between single people. In the western world we call this relationship “dating.” Dr. Munroe looks at all of the relevant questions that swirl around the dating issue. What is the purpose of dating? When is a person “ready” to date? What are the appropriate guidelines for dating? Should I be dating? These are important questions that deserve answers. Dr. Munroe provides those answers as he seeks to help people avoid the possibility of shipwrecking their lives and helps them build for the future.

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  • Sex And The Single Person


    SKU (ISBN): 9781594674914Barbara JohnBinding: Trade PaperPublished: 2004Publisher: Xulon Press Print On Demand Product

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  • 10 Commandments Of Dating


    The 10 Commandments of Dating Student Edition provides you with ten time-tested relationship laws that protect you from the pitfalls of modern dating and will help you practice good relationship habits for the future. This book gives you practical, no-nonsense advice on how to build positive relationships with the opposite sex. If you keep the Tten commandments, you will be on the road to making wise dating decisions! Sales of Author’s Previous Books: The 10 Commandments of Dating, 116,000 STATUS:N CPCCATEGORY:YCKYTIDSX

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  • 101 Questions To Ask Before You Get Engaged


    More than half of all couples who become engaged this year will never make it to the altar. Why? Leading experts believe it’s because couples fail to really get to know their potential mate before getting engaged. Relationship expert and noted couples counselor Norm Wright steers potential brides and grooms through a series of soul-searching questions to discern if they’ve really met “the One.” A dynamic book with a great message for people who seek God’s guidance in finding a perfect lifetime companion.

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  • And The Bride Wore White


    With its conflicting and seductive messages, today’s society is an intimidating environment for young women—especially regarding sexual intimacy. Gresh exposes our culture’s lies about sex, teaches your daughters to resist peer pressure, and shows them the freedom from remorse that they’ll experience by maintaining sexual purity! Now filled with dozens of personal testimonies.

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  • Before You Live Together


    Will living together bring you closer or drive you apart? You are about to make a decision that will take your life in a totally new direction, one that will have a lasting impact on you and someone you love. If you are wrestling with that decision, now is the time to stop and set your emotions gently aside and take time to sort through your own feelings, as well as other people’s opinions about what is best for you. Candid, caring, and thoughtful, Before You Live Together is uses true stories to illustrate different living-together situations and their outcomes. It also addresses the basic questions and issues you may have asked yourself, including:Is this the best way to find out if we are compatible?Why do we need a piece of paper to tell us we are committed to each other?Is it so much cheaper than paying two rents?While this book presents biblical values in a compelling and loving way, it never lectures, but instead seeks to help you decide what is best for both of you. Read it for yourself. Read it with the one you love. Read it to make the right decision at the time when it matters most.

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  • Too Close To The Flame


    (When placing your order, please mention that this is a Lightining Source book.)

    “Our world is aflame with sex,” warns counselor and author Dr. Gregg Jantz. We live in a society where sex is practiced openly, talked about freely, engaged in creatively, and flaunted shamelessly. Cultural stigmas that once kept sex within definable boundaries have all but disappeared.

    Anyone can fall prey to sexual temptation or become the target of a sexual aggressor. Any man or woman who has contact with the opposite sex – whether at church, in the workplace, or at play – needs the vital information contained in these pages.

    Would you recognize a sexually charged relationship soon enough to avoid falling into an affair? Would you be able to help a friend, loved one, or someone you’re counseling avoid such a relationship? Basing each section on gripping case studies, this must-read book for the new millennium will help you recognize the danger signs of a sexualized relationship and show you how to keep your future with your family, your friends, your coworkers, and your God secure

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  • 1st Class Single


    1st Class Single shows women how to date God’s way. God will help you go down the right road that leads to meeting and marrying the right mate. For a woman, dating with the hopes of reaching the altar can be very risky. Your journey toward the right mate may experience air pockets and stormy weather! That is why 1st Class Single was written. Read 1st Class Single and you will discover: Consider it a Bad Sign If You are the Only One Happy about the Relationship Don’t Marry Potential Don’t Try to Make, Force, or Buy a Relationship Develop the Qualities you Seek in a Mate Don’t Go Down the Aisle If You aren’t at Perfect Peace Know Your Worth! Cultivate ‘Sister’ Friendships Look at the Signs Then Wonder! 1st Class Single gives you the benefit of learning from someone else’s personal experiences. Chock-full of biblical references and spiritual analyses, 1st Class Single is a reliable road map that will help any single woman navigate the often-dangerous course toward holy matrimony.

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  • In Moral Love


    Now that society has given itself what it claims it wants in dangerously approving premarital sex, are people happier with the loss of moral love? What happens when someone chooses to live a moral lifestyle in an immoral society? What happens when the immoral and the moral get into a relationship with each other? With change in people’s hearts at stake, the battle for control begins. In Moral Love is a unique love story that encourages single people to wait on the Lord Jesus who, like a ballroom dancer, leads the right way through difficulties. Temptations lurk in every dark corner. Lust, jealousy, insecurity, ambition, and impatience are at war with faith, patience, and purity. Spiritual blind spots loom in people. “Morality” is a dirty word in immoral society, but a spiritually restored “fallen man” seeks to establish moral love with an enticingly beautiful, worldly woman. With uncommonly stark honesty that will shock some people and inspire others, In Moral Love reveals the reshaping of a man’s character. In the end, he finds his true heart of courage and endurance, making the toughest decision of his life. Only in moral love can he prove himself to be a real man.

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  • Devotions For Dating Couples


    Today, there is a great deal of emphasis on the mystical and intangible nature of relationships but very little emphasis on the real, practical steps involved in building an enduring love. In contrast, authors Ben Young and Sam Adams place great importance on the value of spiritual compatibility in Devotions for Dating Couples.Designed especially for highly committed or engaged couples, it helps readers: Understand and avoid the most common barriers to spiritual growth Have an increased desire for fellowship with God Share and explore spiritual issues together Pursue godliness, personal relational health, and wholenessEach of the eight sections includes Scripture quotations, suggested meditation passages, and discussion questions, as well as anecdotes from real people including the authors. Intended as an eight-week study, weekday devotions are to be completed by both individuals, and each weekend study is to be completed together as a couple.

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  • Too Close Too Soon


    Jim Talley and Bobbie Reed outline simple yet effective methods of building quality relationships while curtailing premature intimacy in this plain-spoken and experience-tested manual. A study guide at the end of the book features discussion questions and creative assignments for each chapter.

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  • Dating Intimacy And The Teenage Years


    1A Daughter’s Vision
    2A Boy’s Desire
    3God’s Likeness
    4The Bonding Of Women To Men
    5Male Bonding To Women
    6More About God’s Design Of People
    7Our Weakness: How Man Fell
    8Comparing Girls And Boys
    9Attributes Given To Boys And Girls
    10Sovereignty: Who’s The Head?
    11Setting The Stage For The Lie
    12Believing The Big Lie
    13Fruit Of The Big Lie
    14Boaz: A Man’s Man
    15Boys: Setting The Stage For The Lie
    16Boys: Believing The Big Lie
    17More Fruit Of The Lie
    18The Destruction Of Men And Women-Part One
    19The Destruction Of Men And Women-Part Two
    20Role Reversal
    22Strongholds In Girls
    23Strongholds In Boys
    24Warfare Between Strongholds
    25Making A Man
    26Making Men: Joseph
    27Making Men: Judah
    28More About God’s Design
    29Patterns Of Truth
    30A Summary Of Lies That Destroy Teens
    31A Summary Of Truth And Life For Teens
    32A Final Review Of A Girl’s Vision
    33A Final Review Of A Boy’s Desire
    35Eyes And Ears

    Additional Info
    The dreams and visions of young hearts are part of God’s plan for our lives-including our dreams of the perfect mate. In Dating, Intimacy & the Teenage Years, Karl Duff explains God’s design for the sexes and warns of the ways it can be distorted and ruined. The short chapters in this book make it ideal for individual and group study by families and youth groups.

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  • 7 Secrets Of A Healthy Dating Relationship


    1. Guess What-Its No Secret!
    2. Being A Wise Guy
    3. The Hot-water Test
    4. A Fool For Love
    5. Party Animals
    6. Making Music
    7. The Attitude Of Gratitude
    8. No, Please-You First
    Conclusion: Finding True Love
    102 Pages

    Additional Info
    Choosing whom to date -and ultimately finding true love – is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. It can be done by impulse, driven by misinformation from others. Or it can be done through a thoughtful process, guided by proven principles. This book will help you do just that. It identifies some of the most important Biblical principles for building loving relationships with members of the opposite sex.

    7 Secrets To Healthy Dating Relationships is for anyone interested in building close relationships. Whether you’re looking for someone to date, already in a relationship, or even considering marriage, 7 Secrets reveals seven powerful ways for both becoming and finding people with whom you can build healthy relationships.

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  • Hes Hot Shes Hot


    “He’s the boy of my dreams—Holy, Outrageous, and Trustworthy!” Focusing on the most crucial aspect of healthy dating and marriage, the Clarks offer a practical and biblical guide to choosing a godly companion. Young adults will appreciate this fresh approach to applying God’s wisdom to one of the most challenging areas of their lives.

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  • Should I Get Married


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    Are your ready for marriage? Are you physically, spiritually and emotionally compatible? What if making such a big commitment scares you? How do you find God’s will in all this? These are crucial questions that evey man or woman asks. And they deserve our best thinking. In this revised edition M. Blaine Smith draws from his own experience and his years of counceling singles and couples and takes a refreshingly candid, open-hearted look at these issues, helping men and women think through the important disisions concerning marriage.

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  • Her Hand In Marriage


    1. The Authority Of Parents
    2. Preparing Sons For Courtship
    3. Preparing Daughters For Courtship
    4. Culmination Of Courtship
    5. Details Of Courtship

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    The modern dating system is bankrupt. It does not train young people to form a relationship but rather to form a series of relationships, hardening themselves to all but the current one. Recreational dating encourages emotional attachments without convenantal fences and makes a joke of a father’s authority. The disrespect children have for their fathers in this area is an echo of the disrespect fathers have for their own office.

    Biblical courtship provides a wonderful freedom. It involves familial wisdom and godly protection. Grounded upon the involved authority of the father, courtship delights in its public connection to the lives of families. Sexual purity is a great inheritance for a marriage, and part of the fathers job is to guarantee to protect that heritage.

    Biblical courtship is a humble affront to the sterility of modern relationships. And as a new generation rejoices in this ancient wisdom, the current waves of broken relationships will begin to recede.

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  • I Gave Dating A Chance


    In recent years, “dating” has become a dirty word in many Christian circles. So dirty, in fact, that young believers are now encouraged simply not to date. This position has provoked an open debate among teens, their parents and youth workers, and single adults. For a great number of them, many questions remain unanswered.
    -“Lord, what do I do with this desire to date?”
    -“Can dating be an option for young adults who love the Lord and long to please Him?”

    Is not dating really the only acceptable option in God’s eyes? The answer, assures author and youth pastor Jeramy Clark, is a resounding “No!”

    The time has come for a sound, biblical, and practical approach that balances out the extreme perspectives: dating without responsibility versus a complete withdrawal from the dating process. Learn how you can confidently pursue healthy dating relationships that are characterized by holiness and integrity–and ultimately bring glory and honor to God–in I Gave Dating a Chance.

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  • Eros Defiled : The Christian And Sexual Sin


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    With tough-minded compassion, seasoned wisdom, and an awareness of sin’s destructiveness, White offers forgiveness and a way out for Christians struggling with premarital and extramarital sex, homosexuality, and masturbation. He concludes with a telling chapter on how your church can help strugglers in a context of love and forgiveness.

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  • Black Christian Singles Guide To Dating And Sexuality


    1. Singleness: Burden, Blessing, Or Both?
    2. Male And Female: Appreciating The Differences
    3. No Condom For The Mind
    4. Sanctified Sex
    5. Beyond Dinner And A Movie
    6. Common Questions, Uncommon Answers
    7. Solo Sex
    8. Date Rape
    9. Homosexuality
    10. Breaking Up Without Breaking Down
    11. How To Recognize Mr. Or Ms. Right
    12. Who’s Loving You?

    160 Pages

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    1. Singleness: Burden, Blessing, Or Both?
    2. Male And Female: Appreciating The Differences
    3. No Condom For The Mind
    4. Sanctified Sex
    5. Beyond Dinner And A Movie
    6. Common Questions, Uncommon Answers
    7. Solo Sex
    8. Date Rape
    9. Homosexuality
    10. Breaking Up Without Breaking Down
    11. How To Recognize Mr. Or Ms. Right
    12. Who’s Loving You?

    160 Pages

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  • Starting Out Together


    How can a young couple start off on the right foot, helping to ensure that their marriage remains strong and vibrant? This dynamic sixty-day devotional from well-known Christian counselor H. Norman Wright is written expressly for pre-engaged, engaged, or dating couples. The Starting Out Together devotional allows engaged couples to spend quality time together, learning what God says about marriage success. This beautifully designed devotional is a practical, inspirational tool that will help prepare couples of all ages for the wonder and mystery of marriage.

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  • Purity Under Pressure


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    Does anything last in a sex-crazed world? In this book, you’ll find out the difference between being friends, dating, and having a relationship. You’ll see how the physical stuff fits in. And you’ll get answers to imporant questions like: “What is real love?” “How can you keep a good relationship from going bad?” “What does God say about sex?” “How far is too far?” “What if you’re trapped?” “Can you ever be free?” “Can you ever start over?” Yes. You can be free … in Christ. No hype. No big lectures. Just straightforward talk to help you figure out what to do when your purity’s under pressure.

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  • Sexual Man : Masculinity Without Guilt



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    1. Male Sexuality-The Untold Story
    2. Am I Normal?
    3. Why Male Sexuality Goes Wrong
    4. How Men Think About Sex
    5. What Men Really Want From Sex
    6. Why Men Love/Hate Pornography
    7. Teenage Sexuality
    8. Sex And The Married Man
    9. Men, Sex, And The Workplace
    10. Religion And Sex
    11. Creating A Healthy Sexuality

    Appendix 1: Survey: The Heterosexual Male Experience
    Appendix 2: Where To Get Help For Sexual Problems
    Notes P. 219

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    What “good men” think about sex:

    “Am I oversexed?” “Why do I think such X-rated thoughts?” “What is ‘normal’ when it comes to sex?” “Do other men struggle the way I do?”

    Dr. Archibald Hart, eminent psychologist and highly acclaimed author and lecturer, addresses these and other questions men face daily in The Sexual Man: Masculinity Without Guilt. The result of research gained form confidentially surveying more than 600 men, this book de-mystifies what men secretly think and feel about male sexuality. In it, Dr. Hart reveals:
    *What satisfies men sexually and what the limits should be.
    *Sexual fears, fetishes, and failures that haunt males.
    *How to ensure healthy sexual development-from boyhood to manhood.
    *Keys to a fulfilled and guilt-free sex life.

    Based on the author’s groundbreaking nationwide research, the book refutes the current myths surrounding male sexuality and provides a psychologically sound view of what men secretly feel about:
    *love and lust
    *frequency of sex
    *sexual harassment
    *pornography, fantasy, and masturbation
    *oral sex
    *sex and aging
    *making sexual dreams come true
    *sex and religion
    *sex and the workplace
    *sex and affection
    *wives and lovers

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  • Sex And The Christian Teen


    Uses straight talk to answer the tough questions teens may have about being sexually active.

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  • 52 Ways To Have Fun Fantastic Sex



    142 pages/52 chapters

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    As married couples, we all desire passion in our relationship, but with the pressures of careers, kids, and day-to-day commitments, who has the time or energy to create it?! Well-known sexual therapists, Dr. Clifford and Joyce Penner do! And they provide you with a host of inventive and exciting ideas to help you rekindle passion in your marriage.

    Addressing both “cautious types” and “risk takers,” the Penners offer a new, creative idea to try each week so that within 52 weeks you will be experiencing a sex life that blazes with variety and intimacy!

    Move beyond your everyday routine-learn to have fun, fantastic sex-and you will discover renewed excitement and passion with one another!

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